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Remission

11/28/2014

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Many of you readers prayed for my daughter, Carla, with T-cell lymphoma.  The good news is that after terrible chemo treatments she is now weak but in remission.  She says that Jesus healed her and asked me to thank all the prayer warriors that prayed for her through my pleas for prayers!  Thank you all the saints, angels and Jesus, Mary, Joseph who helped her.

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From Sheila Kaye-Smith:  Shepherds in Sackcloth – this English novelist wrote in the 1920’s – she became a Roman Catholic but wrote about rural English life.

A saintly old woman is speaking to an old Anglican priest who comes to bring her Holy Communion after Mass each day.  He is grieving after the death of his beloved wife. 

She says: “Our flesh is tired and has its own place to go to. Our bodies soon grow tired, and the earth wants them…the earth gets our bodies back, which belong to her – and I reckon our bodies are sometimes very glad to go…I reckon her body was getting tired of her soul. I sometimes think our bodies don’t understand our souls, and are afraid of them. Our souls don’t always treat them as kind as they ought and our bodies want to get shut of them and lie down…”

He says, “but I loved her body.”

She says, “You loved what her body was trying to tell you about herself, but often our bodies are like beasts that don’t understand their riders, and her body could never tell you all that she is, all that you will know someday.”

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An interesting quotation from an early best-selling book on spirituality by Thomas Merton:
“The saint is not one who accepts suffering because he likes it, and confesses this preference before God and men in order to win a great reward.. He is one who may well hate suffering as much as anybody else, but who so loves Christ, Whom he does not see, that he will allow his love to be proved by any suffering. And he does this not because he thinks it is an achievement, but because the charity of Christ in his heart demands that it be done.”

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We had a beautiful dinner and live classical music concert here at the Seminary as a fund-raiser.  I was impressed by how beautiful it was that in former times only upper class people had live concerts in their drawing rooms, and how much more wonderful this is than concerts on TV. 

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In a sermon a priest mentioned that mystics such as St. John of the Cross “even suffered.” I was astounded by that word “even” as if most of us don’t suffer a lot every day in many ways. I thought an explanation would be that sanguine temperament people tend to see life as relatively happy unless something tragic happens, whereas melancholics, like me, will find life burdensome and sorrowful even if we take joy in the gifts of each day. There are positives to the melancholic temperament such as being serious and, with God’s help, working hard to alleviate sufferings than sometimes sanguines wouldn’t notice, but still it is a cross we may need to acknowledge we are carrying so as to unite it with the cross of Jesus.

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There is a terrific film about homosexuality and the Church called The Third Way. It is about 40 minutes long. I think Courage put it out there. I use in my Ethics class.  It shows various same-sex attraction people first talking about the sufferings they had as children and adults because of real ridicule, persecution, and just confusion about their identities. But then it shows the same people saved by people in the Catholic Church who ministered to them. Check it out.
A priest here at Holy Apostles, Fr. Dominic Anaeto likes to say:  “Don’t hang your joy on any thing, person, or event.”
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From a talk of Fr. Mike Phillippino, a pastor here in Connecticut:
“When agitated step back and praise God in all circumstances.  I do not need my own glory or human approval.  Praise God when the walls fall on me or crap happens.  Ask Jesus to show me what to do.  God is trying to test me.  Jesus wasn’t safe or successful in worldly terms!  I need to surrender vs. run away. I need greater awareness how I resist accepting what God permits.”


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Random Ruminations

11/18/2014

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Fr. Dennis Kolinski of the Canons Regular of St. John Cantius, a fairly new community devoted to Restoration of the Sacred through Service at the Altar, who teaches here at Holy Apostles, offered a one day Retreat on Prayer to women in the area. They thought about 20 might come but about 100 came!

I loved seeing all these women sitting so quietly at the Tridentine Mass and Fr. Dennis’ talks and then the silent day of recollection. Almost all the Catholic women I ever met since I came to Connecticut were there. 
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About petition prayer he made an observation that put certain things in a different light.  He said there are 3 possibilities. There are things God will never give us no matter how much we pray for them because He knows they will not be good for us.  There are others He will give even if we never pray for them because He knows they are good for us.  The 3
rd group are things He has chosen to make conditional on our prayer or the prayers of others for us.

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On frustrations:

I was thinking we have a choice:  either we rage it up, suck it up, offer it up.  Someone added “or throw it up”!
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In preparation for taking over a Medieval Philosophy course of the 92 year old priest who is finally retiring, I am rereading Chesterton's book Thomas Aquinas: the Dumb Ox.

It is a critique of the angelism of which I am so fond, insisting that Thomas baptizing Aristotle is just being incarnational since the Platonist Christian philosophers tend to make it seem as if we are just "souls wrapped in a napkin called the body."  As I have explained before, but you may have forgotten, angelism in spirituality is the tendency to wish we were angels without bodies to avoid bodily crosses and just out of pride.
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In prayer I asked Jesus whether He might give me more thoughts about this and He seemed to tell me: “It is a paradox.  On the one hand I came to open the gates to heaven where the soul will dwell for a long time without the resurrected body.  And I came to detach humans from over-attachment to material things.  On the other, We created man to be an entity between animal and angel and we didn’t think the body was ugly the way you do, Ronda. So, take a little time out and consider what this means for you."
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This is what came to me when I thought about it more: Okay. I see that when I love other people I don’t find their bodies ugly even if they are not pretty or well-formed or even if they are very old and wrinkled. I understand that you let us suffer from the old age of our bodies with ugliness and pain to wean us from this world to want to go to the next stage of eternal life.

Little children don’t find defecating obnoxious – they find it fun.  So maybe I have to pray that you, Jesus, in whom all things were made, will heal me of any Puritanic streak I got from my father, grandmother, and from the culture.

Would I really like to just live in a think tank and never walk around and see the beauty of nature?  No! 
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I am reading a book of excerpts from the famous Jewish sage, Abraham Heschel.  
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                                     Here is a quotation I especially liked:

"In no other act does man experience so often the disparity between the desire for expression and the means of expression as in prayer. The inadequacy of the means at our disposal appears so tangible, so tragic, that one feels it a grace to be able to give oneself up to music, to a tone, to a song, to a chant.  The wave of a song carries the soul to heights which utterable meanings can never reach. Such abandonment is no escape...For the world of unutterable meanings is the nursery of the soul, the cradle of all our ideas. It is not an escape but a return to one's origins." 
A corollary I thought of was that the dark night of the soul is to wean us from the excitement of the illuminative way into the peace of the beyond words unitive way.
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Random revelations

11/1/2014

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An older priest recently had some kind of heart episode so that he now has speech aphasia and can’t talk well but he can talk a lot. It happened that I went to Mass thinking someone else would be celebrating it, but he was there alone, perhaps just as glad no one was there as he practiced trying to enunciate the readings.

He did stumble over many words in the readings. He was much better with the proper of the Mass, and happily made no mistakes in the words of consecration. I found myself deeply moved to be at a Mass with a priest who was not in full natural level power but weakened, struggling.  It gave me an image of what it might be like someday to be in a convalescent home where the priests celebrating the Mass were not visitors but residents. 

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Since this priest normally has a very strong character, I thought that his being weakened by his stroke made him more lovable perhaps to those who might usually find him difficult.  And, then, I had a blessed thought, “me, too!”  Someday I might be more lovable if I was much weakened! 

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Some words from my personal journal where I think it is Jesus speaking to me. But first, there are so many lines in the psalms begging God to guide us and walk with us – why couldn’t that sometimes mean with inner words in the heart?
Jesus: In heaven there will be all transparency and no misunderstandings or rejection, so it is natural that you long for that and try to make it happen “on earth as it is in heaven.”  The problem is that due to your fallen nature even though there is much love between spouses, parents and children and friends, there is never complete understanding. That’s why you need Me as your bridegroom.

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Jesus:  Now, this is a complicated day and you want to be in the background, sweet, affirming, not contentious and tense.  Yes?   The how is by concentrating on My presence in each situation.
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I have a terrible time with the cold since my circulation isn’t good and I am so sedentary and just cold-blooded.  Usually I complain endlessly because at the seminary most of the men need less artificial heat and so the heating system isn’t activated until the end of October.  This time the Holy Spirit seemed to urge me to just not complain at all, but just put up with the inconvenience and bulkiness of bundling up.  I found that I am much more peaceful not complaining!   In Low’s Recovery International for anger, anxiety and depression one of the slogans is “drop the complaining habit.”


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On always wanting everyone to be spiritual in the same way, mode, tone, flavor, that I am:

Jesus: Do you see that the dance with each person is different?  I who made the world, can’t I choreograph a different dance for each beloved human person?


In spiritual direction, the priest suggested not thinking of things that don’t go well as failures so much as them being opportunities to learn.

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On concern about the Synod:
Jesus: I am sovereign.  Terrible things happen to My Church from the very beginning. You are to cling to Me and to those I have given you to trust. Don’t let excitement over possibilities take the energy that I want you to put into loving everyone around you. How did the future of the Church look to the disciples when St. Peter was crucified? Or when those in the diocese of Hippo Augustine buried that saint with hordes ready to take over their region?  Let your motto be “The Gates of Hell will not prevail.”

With my students in a course called the Spiritual Life in the Classics, we are watching that wonderful long, long, movie Teresa of Avila. As we see her suffering so much physical pain I had such a sense of how beautiful pain can be if endured with surrender. Am I inspired to show the whole Teresa of Avila movie to take courage?

Jesus:  Yes.  You can be that beautiful of soul if you, like her, want God alone! 

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Concerning a setback in a work project:

Jesus:  Was My mission on earth a mistake because there were so many set-backs even to the seeming set-back of My crucifixion? 


Jesus: About those you are anxious about:  Swathe them in the mystery that is  Me.

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    Ronda Chervin received a Ph.D. in Philosophy from Fordham University and an MA in Religious Studies from Notre Dame Apostolic Institute. She is a dedicated widow, mother, and grandmother.
    Ronda converted to the Catholic Faith from a Jewish, though atheistic, background and has been a Professor of Philosophy and Theology at Loyola Marymount University, the Seminary of the Archdiocese of Los Angeles, and Franciscan University of Steubenville. She is an international speaker and author of some fifty books about Catholic thought, practice and spirituality. One of her latest is LAST CALL, published by Goodbooks Media.
    Dr. Ronda is currently retired and living in Corpus Christi, Texas after her years of teaching philosophy at Holy Apostles College and Seminary in Cromwell, Connecticut.
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